Ellen DeGeneres and Portia de Rossi are telling everyone what’s actually happening behind the scenes, and it shuts down all the misconceptions that have been reported. On Dec 1, DeGeneres shared a rare selfie featuring her and Rossi in the countryside.

You are the best thing that ever happened in my life," the former talk show host wrote on Instagram of her longtime love

The comedian and her actor wife have relocated to the Cotswolds and will put their Montecito, Calif., home on the market, according to reports.